The Loss of My Wife

The Loss of My Wife

My wife passed away recently from her struggles with cancer. She was 49. We shared 19 years of life together and a 12 year old son.   Our love was deeply fulfilling and extraordinary. We made it our priority every day.   I’m not looking for sympathy or well...
No Marriage is a 50-50 Equal Partnership

No Marriage is a 50-50 Equal Partnership

Maybe you’ve been led to believe that a good marriage is a 50% – 50% partnership. It’s not true. In fact, no partnership is really ever 50%-50% I’ve been in several partnerships in my business career and worked to resolve dozens of business...
Do You Really Care Enough?

Do You Really Care Enough?

Many couples go through the motions of caring for each other.   Do you care for your partner but give less than you used to?    It’s not that you’re neglecting each other, ti’s more of a superficial caring kind of thing....
The Marriage Myth; Being Loved is Not Enough

The Marriage Myth; Being Loved is Not Enough

There is a deep longing we all share;  to matter. Who will we matter to? My wife says she loves me. That’s important. However…, To be recognized for what I bring into the relationship, To feel valued, To be acknowledged for what I give. To be given credit where...
Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Want to turn your marriage around, or give it an uplifting boost? Think in terms of providing Comfort vs. Cold. You’ll really want to think about this, or you’ll miss out on one of the most relationship transforming things you can do. How you fail to interact with...
Thanksgiving Wisdom for Your Marriage

Thanksgiving Wisdom for Your Marriage

It’s been an interesting 12 years of helping couples fix their marriages. I’ve seen pretty much anything you could ever imagine times 3. I’ve worked with swingers and swappers, open marriages, gay and lesbian relationships, and every type of physical and emotional...

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