Maintaining the Passionless Marriage

Maintaining the Passionless Marriage

Your desire for each other mutes or exaggerates most challenges.  You are the only one who can decide the level of love and intimacy that is fulfilling for you. 1st, Let’s understand that passion for your partner doesn’t have to naturally decline. I know...
Where’s Your Proof of Love?

Where’s Your Proof of Love?

How do I know my wife loves me? Just because she says so…? Is that enough? What evidence in my life points to her loving me? And what keeps me in this relationship with her if she isn’t offering me substantial proof of her love for me? These are real questions. I want...
5 Ways to End the Disappointment

5 Ways to End the Disappointment

Too many marriages are in crisis today. The number of client inquiries that I get about affairs and sexting continues to surprise me. Here are some easy things to do:  Get Access to Your Partner’s Phone I’ve talked about this before. If your partner...
Lessons of Marriage; Everlasting Happiness

Lessons of Marriage; Everlasting Happiness

Of all my marriage mistakes of the past, I failed to understand that my marriage wasn’t going to stay happy and passionate all by itself.   And I didn’t become one of the country’s leading experts in marriage repair by choice. It happened by...
Lessons of Love; Benign Neglect

Lessons of Love; Benign Neglect

So people fall in love, get married, maybe have kids, and it’s happily ever after….right? That’s what I used to believe happened.   Now that I’m married….we’re good…not much more to do here. I’ve got a career to get...
Unhappy Marriages are Hard, Fixing them is Easy

Unhappy Marriages are Hard, Fixing them is Easy

  Completely transforming a marriage is easy. Wanting to,… is another matter.   Do you know any couples that are in an unhappy or unsatisfying marriage? Why don’t they do something about it?   Here’s what they say: Can’t be...

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