How Marriages Die

Everyone wants someone to love, but no one wants to love with all their heart and get nothing or very little back. The perceived imbalance of love is how is starts. It’s the cause of tremendous pain. And it teaches people that loving so much isn’t worth it. So they...

Cutting Through the BS of Unhappy Marriages

Unhappy marriages are common. It’s the pretending it’s not true that makes it stay that way. People do not destroy their marriages on purpose. No one wakes up and says, “Today’s the day I ruin my children’s happiness.” No one...

Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Want to turn your marriage around, or give it an uplifting boost? Think in terms of providing Comfort vs. Cold. You’ll really want to think about this, or you’ll miss out on one of the most relationship transforming things you can do. How you fail to interact with...

3 Reasons Your Marriage Isn’t Already Great

Not everyone is ready to hear the truth but here it is… If your marriage isn’t already great you’re making any of these 3 big mistakes: You don’t care enough. When I work with couples I look for proof of deep caring. I look...

5 Ways to End the Disappointment

Too many marriages are in crisis today. The number of client inquiries that I get about affairs and sexting continues to surprise me. Here are some easy things to do: Get Access to Your Partner’s Phone I’ve talked about this before. If your partner...

Why the “Good Enough” Marriage Isn’t

Another year of marriage is quickly coming to a close. As you think about the past 11 months in your relationship… Did you feel loved and deeply cared for… the way you wanted to? Did you have the intimacy and passion… that made you feel alive?...

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