The Measure of Love You Feel

The Measure of Love You Feel

Marriage can be a funny thing. It’s never really what people expect it to be. For most it’s something less. Those unmet expectations….The disappointment can be devastating. The most common complaint I hear is:”I love them but I’m no...
Do You Really Care Enough?

Do You Really Care Enough?

Many couples go through the motions of caring for each other.   Do you care for your partner but give less than you used to?    It’s not that you’re neglecting each other, ti’s more of a superficial caring kind of thing....
How Marriages Die

How Marriages Die

Everyone wants someone to love, but no one wants to love with all their heart and get nothing or very little back. The perceived imbalance of love is how is starts. It’s the cause of tremendous pain. And it teaches people that loving so much isn’t worth it. So they...
Why Good People Cheat

Why Good People Cheat

You know that both men and women are cheating at about the same rates today.  And you also know that secretive sexting and texting have become incredibly commonplace. Why? Think back to when you first fell in love, and remember the excitement and aliveness that you...
Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Want to turn your marriage around, or give it an uplifting boost? Think in terms of providing Comfort vs. Cold. You’ll really want to think about this, or you’ll miss out on one of the most relationship transforming things you can do. How you fail to interact with...
The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The effort required really isn’t very much. It’s the energy that matches what you want that has to be exact. If I bring you love, if I bring you peace, if I’m grateful for what you’ve done and are doing, Will that help? If I’m empathetic to your concerns and opinions,...

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