Hidden Gems in Conflict Resolution

Hidden Gems in Conflict Resolution

People can disagree and argue about almost anything, but there are only two real elements in conflicts: 1.  Who is more right? 2.  Who is more important? As you think about this for yourself and your partner, can you think of any other reason that your conflicts...
Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

What you may not know is that Valentine’s Day is the beginning of the end for many couples.   Here’s why: Many people evaluate the happiness and success of their marriages and romantic love-lives, based on whether or not their expectations for...
Where’s Your Proof of Love?

Where’s Your Proof of Love?

How do I know my wife loves me? Just because she says so…? Is that enough? What evidence in my life points to her loving me? And what keeps me in this relationship with her if she isn’t offering me substantial proof of her love for me? These are real questions. I want...
5 Ways to End the Disappointment

5 Ways to End the Disappointment

Too many marriages are in crisis today. The number of client inquiries that I get about affairs and sexting continues to surprise me. Here are some easy things to do:  Get Access to Your Partner’s Phone I’ve talked about this before. If your partner...
5 Real Reasons that Cause Couples to Separate

5 Real Reasons that Cause Couples to Separate

It’s easy to feel attracted to someone. But that doesn’t mean the relationship will last. When the feelings of connection start to diminish, the foundation of the relationship begins to crumble. Without an understanding of why that’s happening, or the right help,...
Why the “Good Enough” Marriage Isn’t

Why the “Good Enough” Marriage Isn’t

Another year of marriage is quickly coming to a close. As you think about the past 11 months in your relationship… Did you feel loved and deeply cared for… the way you wanted to?  Did you have the intimacy and passion… that made you feel alive?...

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