The Loss of My Wife

The Loss of My Wife

My wife passed away recently from her struggles with cancer. She was 49. We shared 19 years of life together and a 12 year old son.   Our love was deeply fulfilling and extraordinary. We made it our priority every day.   I’m not looking for sympathy or well...
Do You Really Care Enough?

Do You Really Care Enough?

Many couples go through the motions of caring for each other.   Do you care for your partner but give less than you used to?    It’s not that you’re neglecting each other, ti’s more of a superficial caring kind of thing....
The Marriage Myth; Being Loved is Not Enough

The Marriage Myth; Being Loved is Not Enough

There is a deep longing we all share;  to matter. Who will we matter to? My wife says she loves me. That’s important. However…, To be recognized for what I bring into the relationship, To feel valued, To be acknowledged for what I give. To be given credit where...
Maintaining the Passionless Marriage

Maintaining the Passionless Marriage

Your desire for each other mutes or exaggerates most challenges.  You are the only one who can decide the level of love and intimacy that is fulfilling for you. 1st, Let’s understand that passion for your partner doesn’t have to naturally decline. I know...
The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The effort required really isn’t very much. It’s the energy that matches what you want that has to be exact. If I bring you love, if I bring you peace, if I’m grateful for what you’ve done and are doing, Will that help? If I’m empathetic to your concerns and opinions,...
Hidden Gems in Conflict Resolution

Hidden Gems in Conflict Resolution

People can disagree and argue about almost anything, but there are only two real elements in conflicts: 1.  Who is more right? 2.  Who is more important? As you think about this for yourself and your partner, can you think of any other reason that your conflicts...

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