It’s not because of a lack of love, it’s because of a lack of something else.  No, not sex. When you look at the reality of marriage today.  My best guess is that about 10%-15% of marriages are happy.   Happy doesn’t mean that things are just OK. A happy marriage means that you are still […]

  “A fool learns from their own mistakes, a wise person learns from the mistakes of others” Based on this quote, I‘ve been pretty foolish in my life.  I’ve made countless mistakes and I’m not done yet….there’s plenty more to come.   Screwing up royally from time to time has its advantages, but only if we […]

A big black bug hit my windshield last night and smashed it in.  It was a truck tire at 60 miles an hour on I95. It came from the darkness up high in the air and my eye picked it up only about 6 feet away coming down on a collision course with me.  My […]

Living a Life of Purpose The year is 2013 and you are looking back on the past 10 years of your life…evaluating…wondering…how did I do? Did I make a difference?  We all want to know that we are here for a reason, and that we matter.  Everyone searches for a life of meaning in one […]

What if it was really that easy? Are you one of the many people who gets overwhelmed and stressed out about Holiday Season?  You’re not alone.  Millions of people experience negative emotions that range from depression and sadness to anxiety and loneliness.   It’s a particularly difficult time of year if your goal is to “just […]

This might be a bit  uncomfortable at first, but you deserve it! We were born to struggle.   We were born to take on challenges and adversity.  We are hard wired that way.  Remember back when you were a baby…no further back…when you were in your mother’s womb? You can easily imagine how safe and comfortable […]