How Marriages Die

How Marriages Die

Everyone wants someone to love, but no one wants to love with all their heart and get nothing or very little back. The perceived imbalance of love is how is starts. It’s the cause of tremendous pain. And it teaches people that loving so much isn’t worth it. So they...
Cutting Through the BS of Unhappy Marriages

Cutting Through the BS of Unhappy Marriages

Unhappy marriages are common. It’s the pretending it’s not true that makes it stay that way.​​​​​​​ People do not destroy their marriages on purpose. No one wakes up and says, “Today’s the day I ruin my children’s happiness.” No one...
Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Want to turn your marriage around, or give it an uplifting boost? Think in terms of providing Comfort vs. Cold. You’ll really want to think about this, or you’ll miss out on one of the most relationship transforming things you can do. How you fail to interact with...
The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The effort required really isn’t very much. It’s the energy that matches what you want that has to be exact. If I bring you love, if I bring you peace, if I’m grateful for what you’ve done and are doing, Will that help? If I’m empathetic to your concerns and opinions,...
Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

What you may not know is that Valentine’s Day is the beginning of the end for many couples.   Here’s why: Many people evaluate the happiness and success of their marriages and romantic love-lives, based on whether or not their expectations for...
3 Reasons Your Marriage Isn’t Already Great

3 Reasons Your Marriage Isn’t Already Great

Not everyone is ready to hear the truth but here it is… If your marriage isn’t already great you’re making any of these 3 big mistakes: You don’t care enough.   When I work with couples I look for proof of deep caring. I look...

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