The Loss of My Wife

The Loss of My Wife

My wife passed away recently from her struggles with cancer. She was 49. We shared 19 years of life together and a 12 year old son.   Our love was deeply fulfilling and extraordinary. We made it our priority every day.   I’m not looking for sympathy or well...
How Marriages Die

How Marriages Die

Everyone wants someone to love, but no one wants to love with all their heart and get nothing or very little back. The perceived imbalance of love is how is starts. It’s the cause of tremendous pain. And it teaches people that loving so much isn’t worth it. So they...
Cutting Through the BS of Unhappy Marriages

Cutting Through the BS of Unhappy Marriages

Unhappy marriages are common. It’s the pretending it’s not true that makes it stay that way.​​​​​​​ People do not destroy their marriages on purpose. No one wakes up and says, “Today’s the day I ruin my children’s happiness.” No one...
Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Relationship Transforming Wisdom; Comfort vs. Cold

Want to turn your marriage around, or give it an uplifting boost? Think in terms of providing Comfort vs. Cold. You’ll really want to think about this, or you’ll miss out on one of the most relationship transforming things you can do. How you fail to interact with...
Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

What you may not know is that Valentine’s Day is the beginning of the end for many couples.   Here’s why: Many people evaluate the happiness and success of their marriages and romantic love-lives, based on whether or not their expectations for...
Lessons of Marriage; Everlasting Happiness

Lessons of Marriage; Everlasting Happiness

Of all my marriage mistakes of the past, I failed to understand that my marriage wasn’t going to stay happy and passionate all by itself.   And I didn’t become one of the country’s leading experts in marriage repair by choice. It happened by...

How Strong is Your Marriage?

The Relationship Success Indicator

Let’s take an honest look at your current understanding about the dynamics that make for relationship success.

You have Successfully Subscribed!