Any marriage can be turned around.
Unless one of you doesn’t want that to happen.
There are only things that get in the way,
and there are things that need to be learned.
Understanding what they are, and being willing to make
the behavioral adjustments is all that’s ever needed.
Nothing else will be successful.
Marriages don’t fail by themselves.
People fail to do what serves and supports the deep
feeling of connection.
And that starts the unraveling of the bond of the relationship.
Resulting in millions of affairs, secretive texting and sexting,
- If you want to communicate better…
- If you want to increase affection and intimacy…
- If you want to resolve conflicts…
- If you want to build trust…
- If you want to prevent affairs…
- If you want to prevent divorce…
Then focus on deepening your connection.
Without that nothing will help.
That’s where Your things get in the way.
And that’s where You need to learn.
Of course the same is true of your partner.
Educate yourself. Be willing to admit what you might not know.
Most importantly be willing to get the right help.
The information to improve your marriage is easily available here.
The guidance to do that is right here.
What you fail to do is often the very thing that creates disconnect
leading to your own unhappiness.
Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot.
Nothing is going to get better. It’s not. -Dr. Seuss.