By far the biggest complaint I hear from couples is that they no longer feel intimately connected with each other. This creates real and often devastating consequences. Lack of an emotional connection is the #1 cause of divorce. What started off as that deep feeling...
In the back of your mind you are wondering this about your partner: Will you be there for me in the way that I need you to,… and when I need you? And what happens to me when you aren’t there for me? And what’s the impact of that on you, and on us? This is a...
A ran into an old friend recently who had heard about my book on marriage. At one point in the conversation he said: I’ve got my marriage right where I want it…. to the point that I just don’t care anymore. I responded: You don’t care about love? You...
Our relationships always reflect what we do and fail to do Not everyone is fully ready to allow love into their lives. That’s simply my experience working with couples over the past decade. Not true, deeply connected, and profoundly intimate, shared love. It scares...
You cannot save a year of unhappiness with greeting cards, roses and phony intimate dinners. The problem with Valentine’s Day is disappointment. People’s expectations for the day are high even if the marriage is struggling. “Maybe they’ll do something really special...
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