How many people do you know that are in amazing marriages where they feel totally connected to their partners? I have seen the data, and done the surveys myself, and the picture isn’t pretty.
Very few people are in truly happy, loving, committed, and deeply connected relationships. Why?
Based on my experience in the real world of providing relationship guidance to successful executives and business professionals, it’s mostly because they don’t know what to do. Achieving business success does not mean that you know how to create an amazing marriage.
Here’s the bottom line…Most people are not taught how to create a thriving successful marriage. In order for this to happen, you have to have great role models, or figured it out on your own… which is rare.
Who were your role models for an amazing, happy, fulfilling marriage? Who showed you step by step what to do? Who taught you how men and women differ in all aspects of the relationship?
Did you learn this from someone who is actually doing it themselves, because as you know talk is cheap. Who is giving you relationship advice today? How’s it working for you?
In my experience, most challenging marriages can be shifted quickly when the partners learn how to initiate and respond. It’s not difficult at all to grasp how to meet your partner’s needs and to get them to do the same for you.
Most marriages are lost the easy way; through lack of appreciation, misunderstanding communication, assuming bad intentions, and a shift of polarity.
Here are some important questions to answer together:
- What is your Vision for the relationship?
- What is your role in achieving this vision?
- How do you show your partner Appreciation now?
- What would have to happen for them to feel truly appreciated by you?
- How do you show your partner love?
- What is their preferred way to experience love from you? Is it by words, touch, gestures, gifts etc…?
- Are you being who you were as a man or a woman at the beginning of the marriage? This is about the interplay of masculine and feminine energy which causes and sustains the spark of attraction.
- What do you need to do to get back to who you were at the beginning as the man or woman?
When you get clarity about what to do, you can experience a freedom from stress that few people feel. I know because I have that clarity, and an amazing, deeply connected, fulfilling relationship with my wife. It wasn’t always that way until I learned what to do. I want you to have that clarity and freedom because if I can do it, anyone can. Plus, you deserve it.
Some people rely on my guidance and insight to transform their specific situations. However, this is only for those who are committed and ready. If that’s you, we can have a no-obligation complimentary conversation about your relationship. I will give you specific things to do to greatly improve it. If you want to continue the conversation and work with me, that’s fine. If not, easy enough and you will still get my specific suggestions in that conversation. Simply send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org and we can set it up.
Marriages and relationships are just like most everything in life; they are either growing or dying. They are not staying the same. The partners are growing in love, or losing love. They are becoming more deeply connected, or becoming more separate. You get to decide which you prefer and what you want to do about it.