Even the best marriages hiccup from time to time leaving couples feeling separate. And if your marriage has been struggling for years, both partners are unhappy. So what do you do? If you try to talk to your partner about what they aren’t doing, will things get...
When I first met my wife, the chemistry and connection was off the charts. Then shortly after we were married, we began arguing more and more. At times it seemed like we weren’t on the same page about anything. I thought it was mostly her fault because she was just...
By far the biggest complaint I hear from couples is that they no longer feel intimately connected with each other. This creates real and often devastating consequences. Lack of an emotional connection is the #1 cause of divorce. What started off as that deep feeling...
In the back of your mind you are wondering this about your partner: Will you be there for me in the way that I need you to,… and when I need you? And what happens to me when you aren’t there for me? And what’s the impact of that on you, and on us? This is a...
A ran into an old friend recently who had heard about my book on marriage. At one point in the conversation he said: I’ve got my marriage right where I want it…. to the point that I just don’t care anymore. I responded: You don’t care about love? You...
Our relationships always reflect what we do and fail to do Not everyone is fully ready to allow love into their lives. That’s simply my experience working with couples over the past decade. Not true, deeply connected, and profoundly intimate, shared love. It scares...
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