Where’s Your Proof of Love?

Where’s Your Proof of Love?

How do I know my wife loves me? Just because she says so…? Is that enough? What evidence in my life points to her loving me? And what keeps me in this relationship with her if she isn’t offering me substantial proof of her love for me? These are real questions. I want...
5 Ways to End the Disappointment

5 Ways to End the Disappointment

Too many marriages are in crisis today. The number of client inquiries that I get about affairs and sexting continues to surprise me. Here are some easy things to do:  Get Access to Your Partner’s Phone I’ve talked about this before. If your partner...
5 Real Reasons that Cause Couples to Separate

5 Real Reasons that Cause Couples to Separate

It’s easy to feel attracted to someone. But that doesn’t mean the relationship will last. When the feelings of connection start to diminish, the foundation of the relationship begins to crumble. Without an understanding of why that’s happening, or the right help,...
Why the “Good Enough” Marriage Isn’t

Why the “Good Enough” Marriage Isn’t

Another year of marriage is quickly coming to a close. As you think about the past 11 months in your relationship… Did you feel loved and deeply cared for… the way you wanted to?  Did you have the intimacy and passion… that made you feel alive?...
Thanksgiving Wisdom for Your Marriage

Thanksgiving Wisdom for Your Marriage

It’s been an interesting 12 years of helping couples fix their marriages. I’ve seen pretty much anything you could ever imagine times 3. I’ve worked with swingers and swappers, open marriages, gay and lesbian relationships, and every type of physical and emotional...
The #1 Cause of Divorce, Affairs and Unhappiness

The #1 Cause of Divorce, Affairs and Unhappiness

First a reminder of the numbers: Each year over 2 million couples divorce in the United States. And 1 person in every 3 couples is right now having an affair. And thanks to technology there’s a huge increase in emotional affairs, with secretive texting and sexting...

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