Do You Really Care Enough?

Do You Really Care Enough?

Many couples go through the motions of caring for each other.   Do you care for your partner but give less than you used to?    It’s not that you’re neglecting each other, ti’s more of a superficial caring kind of thing....
The Marriage Myth; Being Loved is Not Enough

The Marriage Myth; Being Loved is Not Enough

There is a deep longing we all share;  to matter. Who will we matter to? My wife says she loves me. That’s important. However…, To be recognized for what I bring into the relationship, To feel valued, To be acknowledged for what I give. To be given credit where...
The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The Best Marriage Advice You’ll Get

The effort required really isn’t very much. It’s the energy that matches what you want that has to be exact. If I bring you love, if I bring you peace, if I’m grateful for what you’ve done and are doing, Will that help? If I’m empathetic to your concerns and opinions,...
Hidden Gems in Conflict Resolution

Hidden Gems in Conflict Resolution

People can disagree and argue about almost anything, but there are only two real elements in conflicts: 1.  Who is more right? 2.  Who is more important? As you think about this for yourself and your partner, can you think of any other reason that your conflicts...
Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

Will Valentine’s Day Ruin Your Relationship

What you may not know is that Valentine’s Day is the beginning of the end for many couples.   Here’s why: Many people evaluate the happiness and success of their marriages and romantic love-lives, based on whether or not their expectations for...
3 Reasons Your Marriage Isn’t Already Great

3 Reasons Your Marriage Isn’t Already Great

Not everyone is ready to hear the truth but here it is… If your marriage isn’t already great you’re making any of these 3 big mistakes: You don’t care enough.   When I work with couples I look for proof of deep caring. I look...

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